Posts tagged gratification
Sometimes We Just Have To Wait

Waiting…it’s not for everybody. We all wait for different things in our lives. Whether it’s getting a job, finding someone special, finishing a degree, or having kids, we’re all waiting for something. In my case, I was waiting for him to pop the question.

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What is Your Word For 2019?

Even though things are slowly kicking in, there wasn’t a day during my holiday that I pondered and meditated on my word for 2019. Since last year, I have decided to start a year with a word in my heart.

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Birthday Reflection: Staying Motivated

Whether you are studying, working, or managing you own side hustle, things can get a little dry and staying motivated is getting more and more challenging day by day.

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Why Self-Celebration is your New Personal Weapon

A few years ago, I found myself in what I believe to be another rock bottom. This time it wasn’t a loss of a relationship or a loved one, but the complete loss of self-confidence due to comparison. During that season, I only had a month left in my work contract and started comparing my career to the girl close to me.

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To Microwave or Marinate?

I heard in a sermon as a teenager that we live in a “microwave state of mind instead of a marinating state of mind.” As a teenager, I remember thinking the pastor was just old and slow and didn’t understand how he didn’t appreciate that the times are a-changin! But, over the years and perhaps after marriage and motherhood, I’ve come to see that the need of immediacy or “instant gratification” well, isn’t that gratifying.

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